Quick update: basically NC for 2 weeks. Had a dream last night that we were hiking, a long hike. We took a wrong turn and instead of the idyllic destination we ended up at a garish, Coney Island type fried everything stand where the counter staff had to wear ugly striped hats and looked miserable. We had to turn back and start over. Hmmmm.
Then I dreamed that W told me she can't leave ow because ow left her boyfriend of 13 years or whatever to be w W, and texted her, " I left him to be w you, babe, so you have to leave NyGal. "

Then this NYGal who hasn't remembered a dream in years had a third one last night. In it, W said she had sent a bunch of love letters to ow, but she sent them to the wrong address. Isn't that interesting?

Then this morning out of the blue I got a text from W. "I am so sorry"

I was off on a hike with a woman... First date since we 'separated'. So 5 hours later I texted back... Just got back from a long hike. Want to talk? ( I know, horrible DBing) she texted a while later "Want to have coffee this week?"

Advice please????

I'm off to my divorce seminar "graduation" so I will be offline for a while tonight. Great GAL, no?

11/4/15 W revealed EA/2 months later became PA with co-worker
Reconciling since late April 2016
Don't give up until it's time, then move on
Be patient, strong and kind but never a doormat