So Much Time is Passing By Pt. II

[broke]

Hope,

I am sorry you are feeling so low. Weekends are really hard, so much time to fill and too much time to think about H and your sitch.

Please don't worry about having a family yet. My aunt didn't meet her H until she was 36, they dated 9 months, got married and had a child when she was 40. She is blissfully happy and her daughter is now 22 and is a great person. You have time.

I am sure it doesn't help much to hear that because you are worried it won't happen. God has a plan for us. I have to put my faith in that. My S12 told me that he has been praying since July that my H and I wouldn't get divorced. I reminded him what our priest said: God always answers our prayers, but sometimes he says no because he knows what's best for us. Sometimes he has better plans. I am hopeful that He has better plans for all of us who are loyal and standing for our marriages. I hope that all of us will get that chance to have "better plans" with or without our WAS's.

I hope that you enjoy your dinner tonight. Remember that how we feel right now is temporary - that we won't be stuck in limbo forever. And, we will come out much stronger and a better version of ourselves in the process.