Today was..interesting. My boundaries weren't as strong as I would have liked BUT next time will be better. Tomorrow is a new day.
For the 2 baby free hours while he slowly got ready to leave he:
Made me lunch after I said I was okay and would get some later and brought me it into the other room.
Followed me around a lot, if I went into the room he would be in there 2-3 mins later. I was SO TEMPTED to tell him he was hoovering.
Before he left he eventually laid next to me in the bed while I had my eyes shut..then declared he was going to go after a minute or two.
H left his normal time. I think I messed us up by taking the kids early and then coming home and I was not able to leave since he was getting ready to leave.
I had my nails done today, they look fabulous. I look good. I feel good. I am 80% satisfied with my boundaries. We won't be having another baby free hangout day for a while it just was an off day. I'm trying my best to avoid days like today where we are home alone together.
