Hey AP,

Hang in there you are not done. you have a lot of work to do.
How far are you two with the separation agreement. that really needs to be the first thing you two do.

Also after your house is on the market you need to get approved for your next place based on what payments you will be making to W in the S agreement. From there you will know what you can buy for your next place.

I am going through this right now, you need to get moving on this stuff. Also let W take her part in it as well. Let her do most of the work as you don't want this but don't be the reason its not moving forward.

You can do this.


Me late 30's
W mid 30's
T 15, M 10
S4, S7
ILYBNILWY June 2015
In house S July 2015
W rings off Oct 2015
My ring off Feb 2015
Separate houses June 2016