Where do we go from here Part 2

[TimR]

Yeah definitely will not be her handyman. An example of that is I noticed she had her Edenpure heater set on high running in her back room. I know she probably just leaves it on running. I also know its gonna be tight for her financially. I did not tell her we she did that at our house our electric bill went up $200 that month. I just commented wow you keep this room warm. She never had to pay house bills with me and does not know how stuff like turning the lights off or shutting windows is a necessity to keep the bills from sky rocketing. If I told her that would be me trying to control her, she will just have to figure it out herself.