Where do we go from here Part 2

[TimR]

Let me preface this by saying the window fixing was more for me to show off that it was for her. When she left I was 194 now I am 166. My arms and chest are doing pretty good for me and my stomach is flattening out to the point S said I am getting a 4 pack but not 6 pack yet. So I wanted her to see what she was missing.

I would have to say that the vets would not smile down upon, for fixing her window. I also have to say that I would run to her to fix stuff if she needed it, but what is the problem of doing something nice every once in a while. If your son requires the internet and it is something easy for you to do, I don't see the problem with it. Just don't become her handyman. No one on here, IMO has all the answers and even if they do that is just for their sitch. All our sitches are different and when you read the one reconciliation story the guy said when his wife left he was bound and determined he was going to be her best friend.

I am not trying to be best friends with WW, I will certainly not be her confidante, but I want to say in her mind so when she contacts me I am going to be the most out going me, I can be. If she needs something while I am out, I will pick it up, or if I am going up there anyway I will help with fixing a window. BTW it took less than 10 minutes.

So in summary, I can't say it was a message board technique or win but my motivations were good and if that keeps me in her mind especially when OM is around its ok with me.