It always [censored] when it feels like lose lose situations. All you can do is what's best for you and your children. Her attitude is her choice. Sure it effects you, only as much as you will let it though. That has been the hardest part of all of this to me. Not letting her emotions effect mine. I am detached from her choices, they are hers and mine are mine. I may not agree with hers all the time, they are hers though and she has to live with them.
If you are doing the best you can that is all you can do. The choices you make at times are what you see as the best option. It may not always work out the way you want but hind sight is 20/20.
The person that you will spend the most time with in your life is yourself, so make yourself as interesting as possible.
