Suspects is key word here. I went ahead and told he we have to have different accounts. She pays her own bills new car payment since she taking the new car, her student loan. She pays here own bills for her apartment electric cable phone etc. . All kids expenses split down the middle. She said that's fine. Will see how this goes. I'm going to do my best to detach.
Me-LBH, 44 Spouse-WAW, 41 Married for 9 years S, 7 S, 5 BD - November 20th 2015