Thanks Job. You have helped me so much in my life, you have NO idea. Or, actually you probably do because I was such a hot mess at the start of all this!

One last thing Melweb. In case you are not familiar with my sitch, when I say my h kept threatening to get an apartment, he wasn't just going to move there altogether. No no. He wanted to live there a few nights a week and live here a few nights!!! Something told me he wouldn't be here on Friday or Saturday nights. LOL!!

Ah, those cake eating dreams . . .

Me 41, H 47, M 15 yrs, S11, S13
BD 1: 11/4/14 we work on it; really I pretzel myself
BD 2: 3/31/15 H goes down to "dorm room"
8/15: H back to MBR
10/15: H back in dorm room
1/18: H files, now divorced