Back from our trip and it was another punch in the gut to see all of her stuff gone. Got busy into some chores.
A few minutes ago she calls me and sound sad. Tells me that one of her relatives has passed. I offered my sympathy and then really didnt know how to proceed. I was kind of quiet and let her talk. She brought up some other logistical items. There were long pauses as if she was waiting for me to say more. I didnt. She asked me if later on in the week if I would help her get a couch and chair. I said I will have to check my schedule.
I found out the reason she texted me last night was she was worried that we were badmouthing her in front of S13. She ask me for us both to promise not to do that. I said S13 is my top priority and I would never talk about you in front of him. Wow. Talk about a guilty conscience.
My question is when on the phone, am I to be upbeat or what? Not sure how to proceed with much of this stuff. She apologized for leaving some small items still in house and said she will have to come over to get S13 some clothes for her apt. I said call before as I have errands to run.
When she comes over I guess i am to be upbeat. Suggestions as this is all new now. I dont want to be an B-hole but I don't know where the line is for "friendship".
Fight the good fight no matter the quality of your opponent.
Me-50 WAW-45 S13 Married 24 years Bomb 1-Jan.2008 Disc. EA She came back for 8 years Bomb 2-Jan-2016 Separation 3-12-2016
