I'm going to be in a similar situation soon, so I have to ask you: Is fixing her window a DB thing to do? My WW is pretty clueless around the house and on the computer. I'm sure she will be calling on me to help her set up her internet, etc. The vets seem to think that I should just let her float and find her own solution, since she fired me as her husband. But it's partly for my son's sake as he needs it for his homework. Should I do these tasks? It seems like in Detaching you should just let her figure out for herself the things that you do as a husband that she will be missing, right?
Me-LBH, 48 Spouse-WW, 48 Married for 19 years Son, 12 BD #1 - November 1998 (EA 7 months after wedding) BD #2 - November 2015 (same XBF EA) WW filed D February 2016 WW moved out April 2016