Ya I know she ignored saying anything about my bday. Band that's her choice, it honestly bothered me for about 5 minutes. After that it really had no effect. I plan on wishing her happy bday when hers comes because that's who I am. Even a total stranger I will wish happy bday to if someone mentions it's their bday.

I got a very nice bday wish from the lady at the credit card company that morning. We had a joint card and I am primary on it. I called to remove W from it as I don't trust her not to spend on it. When verifying me she said oh it's your bday! And wished me a happy bday and many more to come that me and my family have health and happiness.

Even a person who I only have talked to for 2 minutes was kinder than a woman who loved me and was my W. It doesn't bother me much anymore, I honestly feel pity for her. It is sad she chooses to act this way and make these choices, they are hers though and I don't want to be around someone that is seemingly as fake as I see her to be

The person that you will spend the most time with in your life is yourself, so make yourself as interesting as possible.