Yes, it says not to get help from family, and definitely not from her side of the family.

She is on the PMS dark side now, and she is arguing constantly, so not a good idea to confront her, no matter who you are (and this especially goes for me)

There should be a rule : do not talk to her during PMS

Me38,W36,D9
M 10y, R 14y

10/11/2015 wants to leave
25/12/2015 definitely wants to leave, makes plans
Jan 2016 started DBing
Feb 2016 sleeping in separate rooms
Sep 2016 sleeping in same room