^Bumping this up for the newbies. There are plenty of books on the lists that will help you better understand what is going on w/your spouses/partners. If you find additional books that are not listed on this thread, please feel free to add them.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
