Originally Posted By: Jb9140
I hear what you're saying. I'm [censored] scared to death of letting go.


Isn't that why you are here? To Detach? To Detach is to let go.
Again, Vapo is right. Asking her to not date is useless. She already fired you from your job as her husband. You're asking her not to find another employee to fill your spot? It won't work. She already had a plan before she fired you.


Me-LBH, 48
Spouse-WW, 48
Married for 19 years
Son, 12
BD #1 - November 1998 (EA 7 months after wedding)
BD #2 - November 2015 (same XBF EA)
WW filed D February 2016
WW moved out April 2016