Thanks, yes I personally feel better now I'm going down the DB route, since I know it will help me if it all ends, and will also show her what she is going to lose.

MC is not really going bad, just stalled, but tbh it never really was moving as W was not interested in "trying". We'll see if that changes in the future or not.

M 10, T 18
M: 36, W: 35, D: 8, S: 6
EA: Oct 12
ILYBINILWY: Jan 15
BD: Aug 15
Separated: Sep 15
Miss you: Jun 16
Aug 16: Dating (!)
Oct 16: Selfishness returns...
currently: disgusted