well, our counsellor has said currently not much more point in attending since W does not want to move back in, and does not want to progress to a D. We are starting to go over issues and round in circles rather than resolve anything.
in other news detaching is going really well, esp now I am seeing her becoming more angry and frustrated at the sitch she has put herself in. She knows I am ready to start workign on the M if she expresses an interest. Did some good DBing today when she blew up collecting the kids. Bit my tongue and then some validating later.
Off now to keep busy, starting to have no fear of the future no matter what it holds!
M 10, T 18 M: 36, W: 35, D: 8, S: 6 EA: Oct 12 ILYBINILWY: Jan 15 BD: Aug 15 Separated: Sep 15 Miss you: Jun 16 Aug 16: Dating (!) Oct 16: Selfishness returns... currently: disgusted