Hi Pink. In my sitch when W left she was in a very bad way , she has gone on anti Ds, and she struggled with her life but she seems to have settled and created a new life for herself. There is no.hadshness against me and she has apologied for how she acted There is no rewriting of history and W sayswe had a good M but she just got lost

I feel W has made her choice and she is moving on with it. Like I advise others , I am accepting of her choices and I am moving on too it's tough because when W is here it's like she never left but she did so life must go on

We have never talked about the M because she doesn't really have any complaints. I believe she just feel out of love and wanted a different life

I have to respect that OM or anyone in her new life is kept out of mine and the kids lives so we are spared potential pain and heartache

I do feel it's sad that W wouldn't work on it but we all have choices and that was hers

Thanks for posting Anjo , it's nice to have friends on here that care. I'll be happy again and this will have been a very tough time but one I got through

Take care. Rd. xxxx