It's frustrating to see what you are expected to give for child support, now if you were able to guarantee that all the support money went to your kid like food, clothing all that stuff. Then it wouldn't be such a big deal.

What bugs me is that like you said it facilitates the lifestyle they chose. The $ I pay to first wife is high as well. Higher than what I would need to support 2 kids.

I feel for you I truly do. No matter where the money goes I tell myself it is for my kids. Helps me out a little.

The person that you will spend the most time with in your life is yourself, so make yourself as interesting as possible.