So how things are going lovely. By not posting I would think that you are dealing with the same situation as before with your W.
RD, I know it takes time, and that you do think that you two can have a life together, but I still think that perhaps you two could talk about things even with the intent of some closure.
Sometimes in a very long M, there are issues we don't even realize were there. I know how hard it is to face our fear of rejection, but the more we understand and search for answers, the more we feel whole again.
Perhaps, communication will clear some of the path to a better R, as it is to be back together or just make things a little more defined so you can look forward.
Have you guys ever had "the talk"...why things got were they got? It's not the easiest talk, but one that makes us feel better.
Think about. Talking with no hard feelings is freeing yourself too.
