313, 30 years is a long time, we did well to get this far. Yea, I did ask her to go to counselling two years ago and she said no. My wife is the type of woman when she tells me she is leaving, she is leaving. She is the one that wants to sell the house and get her own place. She has wanted to do this for the past two years and I asked her to stay just to help our two girls out and she agreed.
1313 I feel for you, we both know how much we put into a M only to have it taken away from us and nothing we can do. 30 years is a long time.
My W has been like a good friend but I just get a feeling that something is not right but I can't see that she has anyone waiting for her when she leaves me. She is always home every evening from work and always where she tells me she is going to be. A few more weeks and it will be all over.
Some of my Gal things to do has been learning how to dance and all I can say is wow this has helped me so much to meet new people.
I want to contact a Db coach but right now I just feel the train is not slowing down and there is nothing I can do at this point to stop it.
The only specifics I can tell you is that she say's me she is not happy with me. I guess I don't know how to make her happy. How do you turn a train around?
_________________________ Me 52 W49 M 30 T 32 4 kids over 20 EA suspected Bd Sept 14 ILYBINILWY Still living under the same roof seperate beds
