I agree with Sparkles - no mind reading or expectations about the talk. Do your best to be detached, act light and breezy and try not to talk about R.
Sorry you still aren't feeling good. I'm in the same spot with detachment. I'm not pursuing or begging for reconciliation anymore. However, I do think about my sitch all the time unless I'm busy or distracted with the kids. I think like tl2 said, it's a constant decision to keep trying to detach. I guess we keep faking it until it sticks.
Keep us posted about your talk. I'll be thinking of you and I hope it goes well.
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ILYBINILWY 7/18/15 Move to MBR 9/8/15 Physical Separation 10/10/15 Suspect A 8/2015 Confirm A 12/27/15 D filed by H 2/2/16
