Thanks Tyler I did. It was great having him for time other than practice. We had some fun and we both came out of our funk for a night. She may never know how much happiness she gave me tonight, she may never care either... but I choose to love her anyway for it!
Hi Tim, glad to see your doing better with your interactions with wife. I have thought about this comment you made " I choose to love her anyway for it". Your wife acted in a kind way and secretly you made note of it. And it made you feel a moment of love.
Do you think walk aways have similar thoughts of us? I am by no means suggesting that we pursue them and buy them gifts and declare our love or be doormats (That is not really a true kindness anyway ) I am thinking that being combative and aggressive is not going to win us anything though. It will only make it easy for them to justify what they are doing. I don't necessarily think a spiteful NC will either. But the kindnesses will make it difficult for them, no?
