This is What's up

[RosaLinda]

oh G, you are such a loving woman, and have so much to give. Ellie's explanation that NG might be love avoidant makes a lot of sense, because I know NG loves you, and just could not understand why he refused to allow himself to make that commitment to you.

And Job is right - you deserve the whole enchilada, not just some random crumbs whenever he feels like scattering some in your direction. Be prepared for him to start pursuing you again once he realizes you are serious about breaking up unless he can be all in, remember that old pursuit and distance dance? Stick to your guns, hon. You deserve someone who will cherish you, and I am convinced there's a nice guy out there who will do just that.