As part of my personal goals to try and be more optimistic:
THink of it this way though. If you do sell or move or whatevs, when they do come back, you can create a new fresh home that doesn't have any of the tarnish from the past. A fresh start in a fresh home that you build together.
M:26 H:32 T:8yrs ILYBNILWY/ "I'm not happy": 2/6/16 D-Day-discovered PA/EA: 2/10/16 Separated: 2/14/16 He's living with OW I moved to different state: 06/16 Currently: Trying to move forward