Yes, I didn't think the H's best friend had it in him. I didn't think he would stop the A and go back to his W and family. But, he did. The very interesting part though was his W was his "friend" the whole 10 months….he could come and go as he pleased, she'd make family dinners, he could see the children when he wanted, attended all the kids' activities, and she continued to be intimate with him. She had no boundaries at all and they were "pretending" to still be married…..we all thought she was nuts letting him do that. He actually finally came back and told her he wanted to reconcile after he saw my H and I falling apart - said he didn't want that to happen to them. It actually "woke him up". I am so glad that my marital drama could help someone else…..supposedly he told my H that he was "delusional" for leaving me after 25 years.
But, I digress, the happy news is that they are reconciling….but it does baffle me that she was his friend and they worked it out - opposite of DB'ing. I hope my H doesn't watch what happened and think that I will be his friend...
M 44 H 46 M 20yrs T 25 yrs S15 S12
ILYBINILWY 7/18/15 Move to MBR 9/8/15 Physical Separation 10/10/15 Suspect A 8/2015 Confirm A 12/27/15 D filed by H 2/2/16
