It's been awhile since I have posted anything here, I guess i'm not the best at putting my thoughts on paper. I have been detaching and GAL but nothing has changed in 18 months of our in house separation. We still get along ok but it just seems like we are only just friends now and she is happy to be going. My W has started packing her stuff and getting ready to move out of our house next month.
I'm heartbroken watching all this happen and nothing I can do to stop it. We are putting the house up for sale in a few weeks and all I can do is say thanks for the 31 years it's been great as she is getting ready to walk out the door. My question is, is there any hope after we separate or should I just move on? I have tried to DB for almost 2 years now with no hope right now to save my marriage. Maybe there is a better way to save a marriage I don't know, but DBing did not work for me. 31 years up in smoke. Pooooof


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Me 52 W49
M 30
T 32
4 kids over 20
EA suspected
Bd Sept 14 ILYBINILWY
Still living under the same roof seperate beds