Now what?/ One Day at a Time

[melweb]

I know, I know, Sotto. I see your point. I just don't want that b.i.t.c.h to win!! Is that wrong and childish?? I don't want her to think I have crawled into a corner in the fetal position as she steals my husband away. Won't it frost her a$$ knowing we are down there together. I have zero expectations that it will save M, and I will certainly not engage in any sexual relations unless and until he ends A and recommits to this M. uughhhh....

I have decided not to contact OW H. I have my own problems. I think this A has not a snowballs chance in hell-- too many things going against it! But I am with you; I will be the bigger, more mature, rational person in this little love triangle. One of has to be. And who knows--she could be just telling my H want he thinks he wants to hear. I don't know, and I don't care.

I really do appreciate all your help and advice. This MLC beast/affair has me really confused, sad and angry. Can you be all three at once?