I Still Think It's Too Late (pt 2)

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Thanks V.
You know what's crazy is that I've not done a thing. I've filed the standard paperwork. She's the one that came out with her response document making crazy and hurtful claims against me. I haven't even responded to that.

So getting her email this morning saying she really meant something totally different than "stop the divorce", asking to stop all the misunderstanding and torment... I mean, huh? It sounds like there's a battle going on in her head. I think I want to stay away from that.

Like I said - I'm fine not moving forward to a court date on Tuesday - but at the same time I'm going to use this time not only for reconciliation work (practice my DBing), but also to get ducks in a row if things begin to move forward in court again.

She had a head start on me going back months, and I'd be crazy to not continue making sure I protect myself and my assets.

I think I was right though - this friend had a chat with her, and they discussed several options. For a moment, the W changed her mind but an evening with the OM got her back in her fantasy again. She wants to move forward, but somehow feels she'll be taking a higher road if she goes with some mediation process.
Unfortunately for her, she already showed me all of her cards.