They spin and ride that rollercoaster with the best of them! It is our job to not take the bait to join them on the ride. Please learn from all the mistakes me and many others have made and just stay neutral. If she's miserable, be pleasant. If she's over the top happy, stay pleasant. Don't take the bait for crazy long and open R talks. That shows them exactly what they need, to see you're still there. Just remain as neutral no matter what is said and keep them expectations caged up. Actions will show you exactly what she wants, talk is cheap
Me 34, XF 27 Many years together Son 4 Engaged Not engaged Many false starts by XF 7/16 new girlfriend comes into my life 2/17 girlfriend moves in my home
