I hear what you're saying about Mexico, job. And I am leaning that way. Wouldn't I look like some sad sap of a desperate housewife that goes on vacation to Mexico with her H who is an affair that she and everyone else knows about? What a loser that melweb is.

Then there is a part of me that says "don't let AP win." What sort of message does H send to her when he still goes to Mexico with his wife? Won't that just burn her butt??

I am definitely NOT ok with what hes doing, nor do I want to be Plan B, but I still want to save this M. Should I rock boat?


Me 47 H 49 S18 S15
M 21
BD #1 11/09/15 ILYBNILY
I believe we are Piecing 1/2/16
Suspect EA/PA? 2/28/16
BD #2 "He tried, but needs passion." 2/28/16
Confirm PA 3/11/16, he's leaving in June
H leaves 5/7/16