Well, I have an update, but sadly it is not quite as I had hoped. The W emailed me and said that the path that "we" have taken is taking on a life of its own and has caused both of us to be backed into a corner.
She's suggesting another course of action for a more amicable parting. She's suggesting that somebody like that wise old friend I mentioned above could broker an agreement.
She of course is putting the blame on me with all the "we's", and wants to find another course of action.
I'm mostly leaning towards this being total BS.
Of course it's heart breaking that she's not looking for reconciliation, and is only considering that her actions are costing her money. At least at the moment I feel like a big FU and moving forward with the path she started.
I'm really not sure I see another course of action at this point. Any "brokering" is going to mean I lose from what I see right now.
I'd like to answer back: "So you're not talking about any possibility of reconciliation?" but I think even that is breaking one of Sandi's rules.
For the moment I'm not going to say anything at all.
I'm sick of this roller coaster, and I just knew this was yet one more blow to the gut. I can't believe it.
Me: 58 Her: 59 Kids: 0 Dog: 1 ILYBINILWY: 9/15 D Bomb: 1/11/16 (found out filed) Verified OM: 1/11/16 Moved out: 1/11/16 (thought it was temporary)