My W is saying that things are shifting, she is saying that she feels some attraction to me again, and she is saying that the space I have given her is helping and that she is coming around. But her actions don't really align with this. There have been some kisses and cuddles as I mentioned, but still a strong resistance to really connecting with me. She resists when I invite her to do new things out of our ordinary patterns that would challenge the norms. She keeps a comfortable distance and has many excuses for avoiding intimacy.
To me, it sounds as if she's putting just enough bait on the hook to keep you nibbling.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
