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[Vanilla]

Mu

If what you do works for you then that is very important.

You know the best attachment you can have is to yourself? Detach from all other outcomes and attach to your own.

Like V you need marinade time and that is ok. Some of us do so, it takes time for our emotions to settle. That's fine and the way you work. I have noticed that my gentle Mu needs his space to think and shift.

I have also noted that Mu makes big shifts when he makes them. A kaizen system is not your modus. It frustrates you I think, you want the changes to happen although your nature is to marinade.

I wonder what you can do to take advantage of your nature, to make things unfold in time?

Let it be, let it rest and lay awhile.

In many ways you give yourself too much power as if every decision you make is made irreversibly. Others have their choices too Mu, just because you grasp and make attachments doesn't make them made. Others have their choices too!

I would very much like Little Mu to look in his soul and to fill his hole with love for Big Mu. Truly there is no 'hole' only gaps which Little Mu can expand to fulfill. That little boy who is so vulnerable Ioves you Mu, wants the most wonderful things for you and is looking to you to grow him into you. You do not need to have this space if you look into you and see that which is so precious, so capable of extraordinary things.

I want that Mu should see this for himself with acceptance and peace, the amazing being that is Mu. The unique being for whom there has already been extraordinary growth already.

And as for forming attachments, friendships, loving bonds with those who care for you, that as human beings is what we are designed to do. There is fear that you make these bonds and they break you will be abandoned, I think so. That is life, that is how relationships grow, to risk is to risk broken bonds even with those we love dearly. That is the risk of love, the risk of enrichment of life and it's ok.

To risk exposure of self is authenticity and being. So this means that we offer who we are warts and all. We can be who we are and become, who we are matters to us and to connect as us is acceptance of our nature. Not all those we like will like us back, not all those we love will love us in return. So be it, and that is ok too. And this can change and that's ok too.

Others have their choices as do we.

You can only attach to those who wish it. It's fine my lovely Mu and to know that is comforting and healing.

V