Well, just an update - and that's that there's no update.

Thanks Tim - I agree. There's a lot to consider.

However, at least at this moment I think this was a temporary case of cold feet. The court date is Tuesday, and she was probably just freaking out that it's all happening so fast. But, that's what she wanted.

If I were to guess, she spent a couple of days with a wise old friend - who might have talked some sense into her. But now she's had a chance to return, reflect, and probably even had a date with the OM Friday night.

As I've not heard except for that one text, I'm going to assume nothing has changed. I will certainly talk to DB coach Monday, but think moving ahead is what's going to happen. She's going to have to say something to her L by Monday I would assume. If not, the ball is in my court.


Me: 58
Her: 59
Kids: 0
Dog: 1
ILYBINILWY: 9/15
D Bomb: 1/11/16 (found out filed)
Verified OM: 1/11/16
Moved out: 1/11/16 (thought it was temporary)