When he suggests these things have you told him your boundaries? Maybe, "I don't want you to get any false hope that we are going to be friends...." IMO, being civil coparents is one thing but being BFFs is another and that is your H's cake eating. A vet could chime in on this but I don't see saying something (not in a hostile or cold tone) about what your boundaries are being a bad thing. You should write out your boundaries and the consequences to have a better guide to stick to.

I hope you have a great day Broke. I am going for a run after I drop S off. Hopefully that will keep me from getting sad in the afterward.


Me 41
W 33
M 2013
Suspect A 11/15
Confirm A 1/16
She moved out 2/14/16
Stepson 13
Stepson 16