Red,

That conversation seemed like it was a win….short and civil. Also, you responding with good when he asks about kids and ignoring texts about what you guys are doing seems completely within your boundaries as well. Maybe there was more chatting this week because your son was ill. Overall, I don't see anything major to be concerned about….but, it doesn't hurt for you to evaluate to make sure you feel comfortable with how you are communicating within your boundaries. If your bff doesn't have kids, maybe it is hard for her to understand how much you have to discuss…

Anyway, I say put it on the back burner today and enjoy your time at the shower and with family. Stay strong….no talk about M - nobody's business anyway :-). Have fun!


M 44 H 46
M 20yrs T 25 yrs
S15 S12

ILYBINILWY 7/18/15
Move to MBR 9/8/15
Physical Separation 10/10/15
Suspect A 8/2015
Confirm A 12/27/15
D filed by H 2/2/16