My best friend who stopped by this morning annoyed me. She was going through my phone looking for a phone number while I was making breakfast.
Bff:Mmmmmm girlfriend you need to stop talking to your H so much.
Me: what do you mean? I never talk to him?!
Bff: Your call log has at least a call almost everyday unless he is you know where and when he is you know where there is at least 1 or more texts. That is daily contact!
Me: He calls or asks about the kids but that is it.
Bff: He uses the kids as an excuse to contact you.
Me: I don't think so.. Do you want eggs?
Changed topic to other stuff.
I went and looked and she was right. If he is with the OW I get a text or two..if he isn't he calls me to talk to the kids. Sometimes he will talk to me for a few minutes.
Am I STILL talking to much? I thought I was doing good with limited contact just about the kids.
I never call or text him, I make 0 effort unless its emergency such as hospital, dr, etc.
