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Hi Bright, yes as you say it does sound as though he doesn't want to fully sever the links. It's strange isn't it as in 'normal' circumstances, a spouse would probably want to move on fully. But there isn't much normal about MLC is there?

I must admit, I'm unsure about providing so much helpful support. I'm more of the opinion - well, you wanted to leave the M, so you can 'do' for yourself H. But, who knows it may pave the way for possible R somewhere down the line and my harder line approach may not serve me well. I guess it is the 'doormat' (I'm your personal asst) aspects that trouble me, but in my sitch the R with OW is very much ongoing, so circumstances are different.

I'm glad that your H is being more polite and helpful though and glad you are feeling better too. Hope you have a great weekend xx