She is feeling unsure of herself and the choices she's made. The time and space you are giving her are the best things you can do to allow her to sort herself out. Maybe she's afraid, too.

You're doing the right thing by giving her time and space.

I have to keep that in mind every single day with my WAH. He's lost, and all I can do is give him the time and space he needs to sort himself out. Maybe he'll come back and maybe he won't, but I can't do a darn thing to change his side of the equation.

H: 44, Me: 45
Married: 20 y Together: 25 y
no kids
Walk away: 12/15
Asked for temp separation 12/25/15
PA confirmed 3/16 (apparently neither the first, nor the last PA he has had)
H filed for D 5/16