[BrightFuture]

bttrfly, I haven’t signed up for the course yet. I’ve been busy with work, more work, some social activities, and still kind of recovering from whatever I had last week (I think it was flu.) I will let you know what I get from the course when I complete it. I’m not expecting it to be some kind of magic, but anything helps, right.

2T, I could not say it better. It is a lot easier to breathe when you don’t have to deal with that point blank indifference from MLCer. I have a pretty good self-confidence in general, but this cold treatment by H was getting under my skin. Actually, it’s been about a year since H started getting really nice and polite with me. And I’m still kind of surprised every time he communicates with me. I guess, I’m still waiting for another shoe to drop, LOL. But, I don’t make anything out of it anymore. Maybe I should…

I have an impression (my intuition tell me this) that H has been trying to be extra polite and helpful… Instead of cutting the ties with me, he is actually trying to keep those ties… I’ve got another e-mail from him this morning… He forwarded me an e-mail from American Express, asking him to provide the info to additional card member (me) and confirm that we received our cards. These are the cards that we normally use at Costco. I know that H has not been using his for other stuff, and he rarely uses it at Costco. He is a primary card holder. I use this card when I shop at Costco and also for Costco gas. The bill comes to me and I pay it. H had only used the card a couple of times, and then transferred the money to me for his part of the bill.

I was under impression that he didn’t want the card anymore and these couple of times when he used it was by “accident” (meaning he didn’t have cash on him, LOL.)

So, in his e-mail he tells me that he received his card (yeah, I mailed the envelope to him) and activated it and that this e-mail is about my card. ????? What????? I thought he wanted to get rid of the “extra” credit cards, to simplify his life… Plus, it would be a logical thing to get out of the joint accounts, right!??? This is just another thing that he is trying to maintain that connects him to me (besides the XM radio, car insurance, joint bank account, AAA membership, etc.) I’m thinking now that this is for a reason… I just need to figure out what reason… Or, not… I don’t need to figure it out… I’m just observing…

I haven’t replied to his e-mail yet. I’m just too busy… I had a happy hour with folks from work on Wednesday, then yesterday I had a lunch with the guy who wants me to do some consulting work for him (I did some projects for him before), and today I got invited to a St. Patrick’s Day parade that is happening tomorrow with two of my GFs. We are riding on a fire truck!!! I’m not kidding! This should be so much fun!