Now what?/ One Day at a Time

[melweb]

So-- just came back from a great GAL thing. Went to a little restaurant/ bar to have a drink amd listen to music by myself . H said "that was quick, did I have a good time?" I said yes. Told him I had a beer, but it wasn't the music I liked. Then he comes up to my room , and says " do you want another beer?" I say sure.
He sits kinda far away from me, but we talk about his day. He is very very stressed about work. Like "fight or flight" kind of stressed which has happened to him before. I ask if wants to move ( back to state we just came from), he says no, and that won't fix us. I ask "what will?" He says "nothing- he's done( or dead, I can't remember). I say "its hard to fix an M with 3 people. He says "what do you mean?" I give him some of the info I know. I am calm, cool, collected. I do not cry. He admits to affair. She is married with 3 kids. Lives 3 hours away. He is leaving in June( we cannot financially do anything before) , he will do his own laundry and meals in the meantime. And he walks out of my room

I am surprisingly ok at the moment. I mean, I already knew.

I guess I don't know what to do now. This A is not a deal breaker for me, but definitely new territory. How do I DB now? Are there new "rules?"

Ugghhh. Help