"She felt that I tried to control her whenever we disagreed."
"Which is not how I saw it. "
See rather than accepting that that was her perception of the situation, you CHOSE to not see it that way because you saw differently. She has a right to her opinion just as you do yours even though you don't agree with it. Stop trying to get her to see things your way.
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.