Yeah, I finally texted her back asking "what do you mean by this?" and haven't gotten an answer. I might already have scared the squirrel but you know what? If she's that fidgety then it wasn't meant to be.

I'm in no hurry - if I have bought any time at all, that's the blessing I've been looking for.

A chance.

Yes, the OM has to be gone, gone gone. Buh-bye. And you know what? It's going to be very difficult with her friends as well - some of them were enablers. How do you treat somebody who was egging her on?

My buddy just emailed - get an STD test. Oh yeah, and a post-nup agreement. We have a LOT of things to work out - and a contract is the beginning.


Me: 58
Her: 59
Kids: 0
Dog: 1
ILYBINILWY: 9/15
D Bomb: 1/11/16 (found out filed)
Verified OM: 1/11/16
Moved out: 1/11/16 (thought it was temporary)