Originally Posted By: broke
I hope some of the veterans on this site weigh in…..It would be horrible to think it is another curve ball. I am very hopeful for you but want to warn you that the DR book says don't move to fast or it may scare them away and sometimes it takes more than 1 time for the thought of reconciling to "stick".

You have plenty of time to hash out if you want to get back together. If it really is an option is the first step. Take it very slow is the only advice I can give….maybe wait for her to contact you.

I hope others give advice and I really hope that you get what you are looking for 1313!


Thanks for weighing in so fast broke!

Yes, I'm hoping to hear from some vets too. I'm in shock, and I shouldn't allow myself to be. I need to calm down and convince myself nothing has changed.

If it has - I'm NOT thinking of doing much of anything right now. How can you be so completely rock bottom, and wind up digging even further into this pit of despair to suddenly see light? is the light coming from the top, or did I dig my way through and I'm about to fall?

If this is real - I need to refresh the DR bigtime. I can't blow it. But I also can't let her play me for a fool again either.


Me: 58
Her: 59
Kids: 0
Dog: 1
ILYBINILWY: 9/15
D Bomb: 1/11/16 (found out filed)
Verified OM: 1/11/16
Moved out: 1/11/16 (thought it was temporary)