I understand the facebook thing. I haven't logged on in WEEKS because I don't want to see or know anything about my H and his adventures. I had my friend show me my page and it is 90% of things I am tagged in from other people. Least my friends keep my page up to date sorta.
Weekends are the hardest for us. Like broke said whatever you decide we all love you and are here for you no matter what you decide.