No more morning visits. A-makes it harder to get the kids motivated to go to school B- he just SLEEPS or lays on the couch and doesn't actually interact with anyone since he just got off a 12-13 hour shift overnight and needs to sleep.
My friend thinks he came just because he misses hearing the kids giggling and running around in the mornings getting ready for school. Not my problem!
I AM going to be picking out some days off I want. No more letting him choose every day he gets them, choosing what time I come home. I was thinking of saying (next time we discuss scheduling.) You can have them X day and I will be home by X time the next day. Then Maybe next week let him choose. Split it 50/50 who decides.
SIDE NOTE: I bought myself some new lipstick today. It makes me feel confident since I have 5 lipsticks in the same shade and this ones BOLD and awesome and not like anything I have.