It was rough to see half my H's stuff gone (for some reason, half is still here). It will definitely sting and hurt. Just know that lots of us have been through it and we are here for you to listen and offer moral support.

I will say that being physically separated has helped me breathe and find my voice again. There was so much tension when H was here and it was affecting the kids, too. It has been much easier to GAL, detach and meet my 180 goals. That is not to say it doesn't hurt like hell. But, you have to look at the bright side….

M 44 H 46
M 20yrs T 25 yrs
S15 S12

ILYBINILWY 7/18/15
Move to MBR 9/8/15
Physical Separation 10/10/15
Suspect A 8/2015
Confirm A 12/27/15
D filed by H 2/2/16