I would do things like you are trying to do….anything to get a big reaction from my H. He could see the manipulation a mile away. It never worked - it just pushed him further and further away. Detaching really seems to be the only thing that works. Who knows what sitch it will work for reconciliation? But, I do know that pursuing, controlling, and begging did not work for me….and we can really only focus on ourselves here. So, why not make ourselves the best version we can for the next relationship (with or without our WAS)?
M 44 H 46 M 20yrs T 25 yrs S15 S12
ILYBINILWY 7/18/15 Move to MBR 9/8/15 Physical Separation 10/10/15 Suspect A 8/2015 Confirm A 12/27/15 D filed by H 2/2/16
