Update- Talking about my living situation and coming up with a better parenting plan on MY terms since I needs to stop being such a doormat. New 180 for me is being making DECISIONS instead of just taking orders.
I want this thread to be about ME. About how I, MYSELF and going to be a stronger, better person. Be a beautiful butterfly coming out of my cocoon. I am going to be focusing as much as me as possible( and the babies of course.)
Brooke to answer your question- Yes I think I need to remind him of calling or asking permission before he comes. I will remind him, even if we share the house on my days it is mine and on his night it is his. I do not come over at all, and if I needed to I would ask permission first on his days.
Txhubby- Oh I feel like it's major cake eating. You make a good point and something I really haven't noticed is that even though he left, he makes 80% of all decisions still. He chooses what day off he wants the kids, he chooses what time I come home the next day, he actually gets to choose a lot now that I'm thinking about it. That NEEDS to be something I change. Thank you for pointing it out.
Sotto- I honestly think taking them to his friends house is not a big deal until I move out and into my moms. H should be in the house alone because his friend will be DEPLOYED for 3-6 months and it is a huge house. I have been inside of it, has a nice back yard, it's beautiful home and if the OW is there, well she can go home that day or be there. My kids love her to death, she WAS my best friend and like an aunt to them.
